First impressions: owning the onboarding
The moment you are matched, you are the manager of this educational relationship. You must be warm, reliable, and professional, acknowledging new family introductions within 30 minutes when available to reassure parents.
The Introduction Script
“Hello [Parent] and [Student]! I'm [Your Name], and I'm thrilled to be matched with you. I specialize in [Subject/Curriculum] and my goal is to make sure [Student] feels completely confident heading into their exams. To ensure our first lesson is perfectly tailored, I have two quick requests before we begin. ☺️”
Demand the Pre-Lesson Alignment
Do not walk into lesson one blind. Thinking a step ahead requires data. Request these two check-ins proactively:
- The 5-Minute Parent Call: Ask to call the parent to uncover their true needs. Listen to both the student's and parent's priorities, as they are not always the same. Ask: “What is your ultimate goal here? Are we fixing foundational gaps, pushing for a top-tier grade, or just trying to keep up with schoolwork?”
- The 15-Minute Student Chat: Request a brief chat with the student before the first lesson. Review any information already provided and ask about their current topics, upcoming deadlines, and recent marked work. This allows you to vet and allocate exact exercises beforehand.
Tone & Emojis
Aim to reply to messages within 1–2 hours, sending non-urgent messages between 08:30 and 21:30 in the student's local time zone to respect boundaries.
- The Vibe: Polite, clear, respectful, and authoritative yet warm. You are an expert consultant.
- Emojis: Friendly emojis (🙏🏻, 🙇♂️, 🫡, ☺️) are highly encouraged to build rapport and soften texts, but avoid them entirely in serious or sensitive conversations like billing disputes.
